I saw this post over at First, Do No Harm. I'm going to quote the post in its entirety because a) it's short, and b) it had me so angry that I was almost in tears.
Even though my experience with my doctor when I originally injured my ankle was bad, thank goodness it didn't have the impact on my self esteem and respect for doctors that it has on this person.
I’ve had an ankle condition for the last ten years that doctors have been ignoring because of my weight. It finally looked as though I might be able to have surgery to ameliorate the problem. And then I met the anaesthetist.
“Hello, my name is Dr X. We have a big problem; your weight.”
“Yes, I’m aware it’s a problem.”
“Well, you know what the cause of that is, don’t you? It’s eating too much.”
The consultation went downhill from there. He told me I was at a higher risk for problems from the general anaesthetic (which I knew) but couldn’t or wouldn’t give me any idea of the scale of the risk, despite repeated asking.
He insisted that I cut my food intake in half and lose weight quickly for the operation, and told me to my face that I was lying about my dieting history (all twenty unsuccessful years of it), and that he ‘didn’t believe’ the results of obesity studies. He also informed me that it was healthier to regularly lose and regain weight than it is to keep a stable weight. In short, he gave me inaccurate and actively dangerous advice, and left me in tears with no way of making an informed decision.
At the moment I’m strongly considering giving up all idea of correcting my ankle condition, and just resigning myself to being unable to walk. And when I get fatter and less healthy from lack of exercise, I’m sure that’ll be my fault for eating too much as well.
I’m so angry about this. But what’s the point in complaining?
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I feel the need to punch something.



12 comments:
Wow! How sad! I hope you find a way to get relief!
- Lisa
www.losewithlisa.blogspot.com
OMG that is the most disgusting (and disturbing) thing I have read in a very long time. I am flabbergasted that someone like that has the nerve to call himself a "professional".
I'm so sorry the profanity that I'm about to let loose, but FUUUUUUUUCK HIM. That poor woman! I hope she gets a second opinion.
OMG, this is horrible. I feel so sad for this person. What doctors have any right to treat their patients like this!!!!!!
Just find another doctor. Vote with your dollars.
Andrew - I think you missed the first sentence. "I’ve had an ankle condition for the last ten years that doctors have been ignoring because of my weight. After ten years of battling with doctors to get them to take the condition seriously, is it any wonder they want to just resign themselves to never being treated?
Damn, that's one shitty ass doctor. =/
That's abusive! I would be reporting that prick. I feel so bad for her. No wonder she feels so defeated.
They give me similar crap about my knees, but no one has been SO blunt and rude about it like that!
OMG.
What the fuck.
What makes doctors think they can say whatever the hell they want to patients when they don't know a damn thing about that particular area? That is the worst advice I've ever heard.
I fucking HATE when doctors are like this. Argh...
This is so sad. My DH and I plan on starting a fam in the new year and I just know that pregnancy and birth is going to be a little less joyous for us than for others. Finding maternity clothes, dealing with the "DO NOT WHAT EVER YOU DO GAIN WEIGHT" Dr set and then having them dictate to us about THEIR desired birth plan because they'll be convinced I'm too high risk. (I weigh 270, and I'm 32 and in good health).
We'll persevere and push back but it would be nice if that wasn't something I have to deal with it. Or anyone, for that matter.
Any problem could be solved easily and quickly?
All you need is
buy phentermine. You'll forget about fat forever.